Sunday, July 24, 2005

"An Experience To Remember"

-- July 24th, 2005 --

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A relationship is an experience to remember. Hell... it's a social experiment in how long and how strong you can experience another person in your life. Being that other part of you. From morning to noon till night, this person is a big part of your inner circle. You never forego your friends or family, but this person becomes so... much... more.

People will change once you presence this person, whom you believe to be the one. A part of you will indeed change as will your companion. Your family may or may not be pleased with the decision that you make. If your family is anywhere like my family is -- then that is definitely not a good thing. During the course of this relationship, you will go through the trials and tribulations of dealing with the responsibility that is -- dealing with one another.

There are going to be wants, needs, and desires that are going to have to be fulfilled one way or another. Some may be changes that you had never done before. For myself, I feel that for love, I have made some significant changes that benefitted my experience positively. The key thing to acknowledge is -- YOU WILL MAKE MISTAKES! The point to remember is that if you learn from your mistakes and keep them from happening again -- it should keep happiness in your home.

Communication is a two-way street. One of the things that I learned is that I may be able to be open with the one I love, I may even be able to accept criticism from her -- but if the fire gets hot and you are always looking for the fire escape instead of the fire extinguisher, then something drastically needs to change. I am in the process of changing that. My ego is another thing. As anyone would know -- the male ego is a fortress, easily bruised. I can no longer feel as if I have to be right.

A relationship is an experience to remember. Remember that and you'll continue to have a lifetime of memories to relish.


Blogger Dayrell said...

Kev...What happened to my job?? LOL. Say what?? LOL Being single has it's advantages??? LOL! My brutha...You don't have to be jobless or manless or lifeless in order to have time to have to be lifeFULL...(don't understand what I mean, think about it) got it all backwards dear good

July 27, 2005 at 11:38 PM

Anonymous Anonymous said...

nice blog.

July 30, 2005 at 4:41 PM

Blogger G. Cornelius Harris said...

dig that...Nice post...I'll keep you posted

August 4, 2005 at 12:59 AM


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